Lose your modesty. Throw off the shackles of restraint and self-recrimination. Don't hide your foodstuffs behind dark, oppressive cabinet doors. Let the light in. Offer visitors a glimpse of the real you by putting glass fronts on your cabinets or opting for open shelving. Those expired boxes of holiday crackers and stress busting chocolate covered pretzels are badges of honor that celebrate your flawed but valiant spirit.